I couldn't even let him in all the way because it hurt so much. The most important thing to do is laugh off the experience and learn from it. Make sure it is the right guy at the right time. Guest over a year ago Okay Girls have a protective "thin skin" that protects their vagina from infection. If having intercourse is losing virginity to you, then so be it. Don't let people freak you out xxx.
Does losing your virginity hurt?
It's possible you never had one to begin with. I'd never had sex with a man either nor fingered myself. Some people naturally have more hymenal tissue than others — this pain and bleeding can happen when their hymen gets stretched. I always thought it would be the ultimate pleasure. Not only is foreplay aka all the sexy fun stuff you do leading up to full sex a whole pile of joy, but it also serves a purpose. I've heard it's more painful if it is intact.
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To help ease into things, make sure you indicate to your partner that you want to take it slow. The guy was about 8" and didn't go slow or anything. Avatars by Sterling Adventures. When you look at it positively, you will be more sexually satisfied. Make sure you have extra lube for your first couple of goes though, just to make things easier for you. In the four years since then, I've clocked up six sexual partners.
It did not hurt for the first time I had sex or any of the times I've engaged in sex to date. I started university when I was 21 and fell in love with a man who lived in the same halls as me, but was too scared to tell him. I was super wet when she first entered me with her finger, and it hurt. As a teenager, there were times I loathed being virginal and was desperate for some male attention. Our culture might be one of "everything now" but I've learned how to wait. Planning To Perm Your Hair? But it didn't happen, despite the fact that my first kiss, aged 15, had almost gone a lot further.